Re: Girly girl or Tomboy?
Posted: 24 Jun 2015, 22:38
Boxorino wrote:i don't think we have to put these kinds of labels on ourselves. also colour doesn't define gender thanks.
I totally agree Boxy.
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Boxorino wrote:i don't think we have to put these kinds of labels on ourselves. also colour doesn't define gender thanks.
Boxorino wrote:i don't think we have to put these kinds of labels on ourselves. also colour doesn't define gender thanks.
Vienna wrote:Excalibur wrote:Angel wrote:Excalibur wrote:Don't be a girly girl.
Now you must explain yourself.
idk girly girls are kinda annoying.
There is tom boy, normal girl, and girly girl....
Damn you. <3
Girls shouldn't have to change who they are just because you have a problem with it. Ladies; be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
Excalibur wrote:Vienna wrote:Excalibur wrote:Angel wrote:Excalibur wrote:Don't be a girly girl.
Now you must explain yourself.
idk girly girls are kinda annoying.
There is tom boy, normal girl, and girly girl....
Damn you. <3
Girls shouldn't have to change who they are just because you have a problem with it. Ladies; be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
Woah, lol I didn't ask anyone to change. Be who you want to be.. be true to yourself. I was just joking. I guess, what im coming from is that my sisters are girly girls and can sometimes be annoying. Doesn't mean I don't love them. But yeah, I dont want anyone changing themselves for others.
Vienna wrote:If a friend of mine were to absent-mindedly mention that a characteristic of mine was "annoying" and "don't be" that person, I know I would be disheartened. I also wonder how many young girls might have read that response shamefaced. Especially as a person with credibility and power in the FWG community, your response was poorly chosen. To then blow it off as nothing? Not so great, either.
Weak excuses aside, it is awesome you recognize and support the individual. We can agree on something
andFWG Leader wrote:tomboys are more fun that girly girls.
Angel wrote:I can go from tomboy to girly easily.
Being able to balance the two is the key.
Vienna wrote:Excalibur wrote:Angel wrote:Excalibur wrote:Don't be a girly girl.
Now you must explain yourself.
idk girly girls are kinda annoying.
There is tom boy, normal girl, and girly girl....
Damn you. <3
Girls shouldn't have to change who they are just because you have a problem with it. Ladies; be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.
Vienna wrote:Right. I can see where you're coming from. My second response to you came from a place of hurt, since I didn't think you were being sincere and were just throwing words together non-chalantly, and at the time I felt like that needed to be addressed. Regardless of whether there was sincerity or not (and all has been put out on the table now), I shouldn't be hoity-toity enough to think it's my place to go "educating" people. This is my first time on a forum or chat ect, so please bare with me as I learn my way around the digital world: Think first, write after
I'm sorry, Excalibur. I went too far. And, I shouldn't have made assumptions. I bet it didn't feel so hot to have some crazed woman hounding you. Yikes...
I am not usually so irritable. Recently, I did quit one of my jobs due to the unrelenting sexism and recurring sexual harassment. This doesn't justify me being a hard-ass (can I say that?). I'm just insecure enough that I want you to know I am not always such a stiff, and this was my little way of licking some wounds.