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tell me what you think
Posted: 25 Oct 2010, 14:27
by cutielove
hi im 16 and im pregnant with twins i have im due janurary 22 i ll be by myself my ex left me cuz i am pregnant. my dadand 2 of my sister want me to give my babys up my mom says to chose what i want. i dont know help me
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 09:54
by Dr Frook
looking after babies is hard at the best of times. Doing it alone, without a partner and so young would be much harder. The question is - r u up to the challenge?
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 13:41
by Netskyvirus2010
all I can say is start finishing your school
and start getting used to what you have started then finish it
babies, toddlers, childern, teens, semi-adults.
till they are at the legal age. You basically taking the biggest chunck of your best years in your life. (16 - 30 years old)
16 +18 = ...
well; start getting all the help you can get. Cause you will need it.
get your help from good people.
thanks
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 13:44
by Netskyvirus2010
And you dad... Is right what you going to be with 2 childern ... no education, no social-life? getting a childern at the wrong time can have bad-social effects...
Go ask for help from your parents, your good family members, and never ask help from someone you dont know. Unless they have a purpose of helping you not damage you.
thanks... Thats all I can do
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 15:24
by Lightning Orb
Didn't we have a post from someone like this before and she got the dates all messed up?
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 19:18
by cutielove
I think it will be hard to give up my children to someone i dont know ill fell so bad im adopted so i know what it is like not to know your birth mom yes im finishing school im a junior in high school and im taking my classes online. i worry about the money there will be two of everything.
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 22:14
by InSiGhTfUl
This would be why you think things through.
Re: tell me what you think
Posted: 27 Oct 2010, 12:34
by Lightning Orb
cutielove wrote:I think it will be hard to give up my children to someone i dont know ill fell so bad im adopted so i know what it is like not to know your birth mom yes im finishing school im a junior in high school and im taking my classes online. i worry about the money there will be two of everything.
Well if you cant care for them, they deserve to go to a better home, I would feel bad too, but then I would realize that later down the road what i was doing could be the right thing and best thing for them.