"taking a break" in relationships

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"taking a break" in relationships

Postby J3rdegree » 29 Mar 2012, 22:55

My girlfriend of 6 months just asked to "take a break" for her to get a grip on the relationship.. to see if it is worth the stress tht it makes..
she promised not to date another guy before she told me it was definitively over..

what are your views on this? cuz rite now i feel like an empty shell...
anyone gone through this and have any advice? any way to cheer yourself back up? :/

anything can help at this point... im just blasting music and attemptin to talk to ppl.. but it seems to be makin the pain worse :/
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby Dr Frook » 30 Mar 2012, 00:46

this taking a break 'thing' sounds more like it is time to move on and find someone else.

the only reason why someone would want to do take a break is if it is not happening or there is something seriously wrong.

let go, feel the pain for a while, and all will be well soon enough.
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby Foopzheart » 30 Mar 2012, 01:11

When she says "take a break"
She means "It's over, bro"

Sorry to...break...it to you.
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby J3rdegree » 30 Mar 2012, 02:15

yah thts what i thought... but there is still some hope... right? tht is the only thing keepin me sane right now...
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby Dr Frook » 30 Mar 2012, 02:19

no the hope will crush u

there is hope of finding something better

just focus on that.

move along, move along.
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby Captain Wolf » 30 Mar 2012, 02:27

FWG Leader wrote:no the hope will crush u

there is hope of finding something better

just focus on that.

move along, move along.

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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby Sylvia » 30 Mar 2012, 21:48

I went on a date with a guy, he told me he was going for a cigarette break.

He didn't come back...I sat in the restaurant for two hours. :cry:

But what I mean is, she's trying to break up with you but she's too cowardly. Move on, and find yourself a girl who doesn't need to take a break, especially to see if it's "worth the stress....

you deserve better..
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby J3rdegree » 31 Mar 2012, 01:57

she came crying to me this mornin sayin she was sorry and should never hav done tht...
i took her back this time.. but if this happens again im callin it quits

thanks for the help i guess? XP

yah for any other ppl tht this happens to if by the next day they arent in tears about it.. just end it. cuz ya dont want to get back with someone tht will break ur heart again and again
i know its even a stupid idea tht i accepted her back.. but who knows what will happen? its worth takin a risk every once in awhile
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Re: "taking a break" in relationships

Postby ghost 9 » 31 Mar 2012, 02:12

j3rdegree wrote:she came crying to me this mornin sayin she was sorry and should never hav done tht...
i took her back this time.. but if this happens again im callin it quits

thanks for the help i guess? XP

yah for any other ppl tht this happens to if by the next day they arent in tears about it.. just end it. cuz ya dont want to get back with someone tht will break ur heart again and again
i know its even a stupid idea tht i accepted her back.. but who knows what will happen? its worth takin a risk every once in awhile

Or you could try and rekindle what is believed to be lost, nothing is worth giving up on if it means even a slight amount to you.
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