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troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 01:12
by Demitri
i need help . i need a gf and i think i wont get one till college how can i get one now? :oops: its hardto talk about it. being this age and not ever having a gf in rl.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 02:14
by Lamb
First off,stop sounding so desperate, No one wants someone who is only wanting to get one.
Why Do you want a girlfriend so badly?
Talk more,Be yourself,and Be Kind toward them if your so desperate...I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 04:12
by Dr Frook
wait until you're 30. GFs are trouble.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 10:54
by Shadowstar1922
Lamb wrote:I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.



Lol, I had to resort to that xD

I'm sure a lot of guys do that for the same reason.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 15:37
by Shadow00
FWG Leader wrote:wait until you're 30. GFs are trouble.

Live like Joey, i say.
Get many gfs, but not for long.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 18:14
by mmm
Don't get a girlfriend for the sake of getting a girlfriend. I tried that, it's awkward and doesn't go anywhere.

However, relationships early in life will help you when it comes to the ones later in life that I believe actually matter. For example, right now I'm struggling with getting a girl to go out with me. I'm not sure how soon I should tell her I want her to be my girlfriend, or how to phrase it, or how I'll give her a flower on the first real date (what, bring a vase? Carry it in my hand? lol). This is all because I was never in a relationship previously.

So you want to balance being too conservative about dating (not dating until you find the perfect girl) with being too liberal (I need a girlfriend. If you're female you qualify). I can't give much advice other than to be yourself and to ask about her. When you start "talking" (you both know where you're headed but haven't said anything yet) text her nice things in the morning. Be a gentleman. I'm sure guys who have actually had girlfriends can give better advice, lol.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 20:01
by Demitri
its not that i jst want one.. everyone thinks im weird and only laugh at me because im stupid. im not. i want to show tht i can be loving too.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 10 Oct 2012, 00:50
by mmm
The only way to show them that you're someone else is to be yourself. I don't know who you are so I can't help you any more than that. Do you like ____, but don't talk about it because other people think it's not cool? Screw them, I'm sure other people enjoy it just as much as you do, and those are the ones you need to hang out with.

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 01:40
by Lamb
Shadowstar1922 wrote:
Lamb wrote:I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.



Lol, I had to resort to that xD

I'm sure a lot of guys do that for the same reason.

I have to do that a couple of times a year.... sucks how im asked by girls i dont like,and how they then act like ...Female dogs...To me after wards

Re: troubles with girlfriends. need help!

Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 04:40
by Father Anderson
I say you don't get a gf till highschool but who am i to advise somebody on something i hardly understand myself