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Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 15 Dec 2010, 01:37
by mmm
I cannot tell what this girl is thinking. Any input would be appreciated. She's a new student, and I talked to her some just before summer break. There was some chemistry, so I asked her out on a group date during the break. I did pretty bad, not being aggressive enough and not giving her a hug before I left. I screwed up because a couple of people who came along didn't get along with me. So, I asked her out on a single date the next time. It was FANTASTIC! The only mistake I made was not txting her first afterwards.
Now during the school year, her best friend sabotaged me publicly. Talking to her now, she is a completely different person. She is friendly enough, but I'm beginning to have my doubts. We went on more dates and had fun, but whenever her friend was around, the date flopped. I assumed that she told her friend she wasn't interested, and to break us up. So, I gradually stopped talking to her.
At this point I'm sure I was right. She won't do much except say "Hi" in the hallway. 3 months later, she's flirting (at least being REALLY friendly) with me! I really have no idea what to think.
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 16 Dec 2010, 01:01
by Sano
well my friend your friend has a bad case of terveratlsons disease this will continuously happen through out your life with her. your best bet is to STAY AWAY.
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 19 Dec 2010, 20:20
by Netskyvirus2010
mmm wrote:I cannot tell what this girl is thinking. Any input would be appreciated. She's a new student, and I talked to her some just before summer break. There was some chemistry, so I asked her out on a group date during the break. I did pretty bad, not being aggressive enough and not giving her a hug before I left. I screwed up because a couple of people who came along didn't get along with me. So, I asked her out on a single date the next time. It was FANTASTIC! The only mistake I made was not txting her first afterwards.
Now during the school year, her best friend sabotaged me publicly. Talking to her now, she is a completely different person. She is friendly enough, but I'm beginning to have my doubts. We went on more dates and had fun, but whenever her friend was around, the date flopped. I assumed that she told her friend she wasn't interested, and to break us up. So, I gradually stopped talking to her.
At this point I'm sure I was right. She won't do much except say "Hi" in the hallway. 3 months later, she's flirting (at least being REALLY friendly) with me! I really have no idea what to think.
all I can say is dont be a dumb or over-inflated american

Americans have the ability to put extra cheese in dating

and have the tendancy to cause easy major break-ups XD
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 20 Dec 2010, 18:31
by mmm
lol, staying away is what I've been doing. I'll be fine.
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 28 Dec 2010, 12:31
by Sphinx
actually,the first thing that came to mind when i saw the topic name was arena...
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 28 Dec 2010, 16:37
by mmm
Sphinx wrote:actually,the first thing that came to mind when i saw the topic name was arena...
Arena has quite a legacy don't he

?
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 28 Dec 2010, 23:25
by Lightning Orb
Sano wrote:well my friend your friend has a bad case of terveratlsons disease this will continuously happen through out your life with her. your best bet is to STAY AWAY.
Oh pish posh Shano!
What do you know??
Children think this is a dating site now,
Arena is just a hipocrit!
He was bringing it up about those who date in chat,
But he does it behind mods backs! -_-
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 29 Dec 2010, 15:53
by paladin
Ok, her friend probably thinks your a geekey idiot/ not popular so bad crap. The girl likes you, but the friend doesn't like you together. Keep with her, and don't care what the friend says. Act natural and don't be an asshole. Good advice is in some other threads. Read the email repost I made, and try and be that dude. Have fun

Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 01 Jan 2011, 04:48
by Sora
mmm wrote:I cannot tell what this girl is thinking. Any input would be appreciated. She's a new student, and I talked to her some just before summer break. There was some chemistry, so I asked her out on a group date during the break. I did pretty bad, not being aggressive enough and not giving her a hug before I left. I screwed up because a couple of people who came along didn't get along with me. So, I asked her out on a single date the next time. It was FANTASTIC! The only mistake I made was not txting her first afterwards.
Now during the school year, her best friend sabotaged me publicly. Talking to her now, she is a completely different person. She is friendly enough, but I'm beginning to have my doubts. We went on more dates and had fun, but whenever her friend was around, the date flopped. I assumed that she told her friend she wasn't interested, and to break us up. So, I gradually stopped talking to her.
At this point I'm sure I was right. She won't do much except say "Hi" in the hallway. 3 months later, she's flirting (at least being REALLY friendly) with me! I really have no idea what to think.
wow. good thing i'm not like that. i go as friend. bestie. bf. dumped cause i messed up big time.
Re: Flirt, ignore, repeat.
Posted: 01 Jan 2011, 05:01
by Demyx
mmm wrote:I cannot tell what this girl is thinking. Any input would be appreciated. She's a new student, and I talked to her some just before summer break. There was some chemistry, so I asked her out on a group date during the break. I did pretty bad, not being aggressive enough and not giving her a hug before I left. I screwed up because a couple of people who came along didn't get along with me. So, I asked her out on a single date the next time. It was FANTASTIC! The only mistake I made was not txting her first afterwards.
Now during the school year, her best friend sabotaged me publicly. Talking to her now, she is a completely different person. She is friendly enough, but I'm beginning to have my doubts. We went on more dates and had fun, but whenever her friend was around, the date flopped. I assumed that she told her friend she wasn't interested, and to break us up. So, I gradually stopped talking to her.
At this point I'm sure I was right. She won't do much except say "Hi" in the hallway. 3 months later, she's flirting (at least being REALLY friendly) with me! I really have no idea what to think.
Eh just forget her.