I'm angry about [U FORGOT TO CENSOR THEIR NAME OMG] always ignoring me because sometimes I have important things to ask [please use gender neutral pronouns] about something.
- me w/ my mom. next time ur able to talk to
them, be sure to tell them this. maybe they'll start listening to you????
Boxy, if you're mad at someone for leaving you because they want someone else, what should you do..?
- this depends. is it someone you dated? or is it a friend?
this isnt exactly fwg-related but I'M FEELING FEELINGS AND DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH FEELINGS
- this form is for stuff not fwg related! whAT KIND OF FEELINGS *gasp* is there a cute person involved???
Let me just say right here this is a mess and really it's mostly me talking to myself, so if you want to post it I don't really mind because it's anonymous, but probably you will not want to because a. cussing and b. depressing. OKay so first of all my computer's being a pile of [censored] EXCUSE MY LANGUAGE BUT YOU CAN EDIT IT also um annoying people at work, and also school is stupid as hell and stressing me out so much and also I've been struggling with my depression again like literally I've been arguing with myself over whether I should or shouldn't eat and I just hate every fiber of my being so so sosososososos much alsO, apparently, other people don't like me either (namely boys) so people assume since I have not had a boyfriend and since I have one best friend that's a girl that I basically do everything with because I have super extreme major social anxiety and cannot be alone anywhere without feeling judged, people in this damn town assume I'm a lesbian. Which, I have nothing against lesbians, but I am not one, and I don't think it's appropriate for people to assume that shit. Not that it affects my friend and I's relationship or anything, it just really makes me feel more nervous and anxious because well what if that's why guys don't like me? But then it's their [censored] fault for not asking me personally, for not making a move. I just don't [censored] get it and really I'm so sorry for all the cussing but I'm such a mess and I'm surprised I haven't resorted to cutting again and I'm getting more and more short tempered and I really really just hate mYSELF okay I'm done I'M DONE
- tip number one: don't sit around and wait for the boy! go to the boy! talk to him first! in our society, the girls are always expected to sit around and wait, but you don't have to conform to gender roles. go get him! ask HIM out on a date!
- tip number two: the social anxiety is understandable. the important thing there is to learn to accept yourself. as soon as you are able to be like "that mole on my cheek? it's cute. i like it." or "i don't mind the stretch marks on my thighs! they're like natural lighting tattoos!" then you're good! you're not going to worry about what other people think about you because if you're confident in yourself, people will see that and give you respect. humans aren't perfect. you and i, we're not perfect. but we have to accept our flaws as things that make us who we are. me? i hate my laugh. i wish it was different. but you know what? it helps make me who i am. and if i'm confident in that, it's a good thing.
- tip number three: please eat. please please please. having food in your stomach helps with mood swings. if i'm ever really pissed off at someone, it's usually because i haven't eaten anything. please eat food. don't starve yourself honey bunny. and if u get a little chubby, who cares! you'll look cute as heck (also you'll keep warm better).
- tip number four: no baby boo please don't hurt yourself. find a better outlet. try doodling. if you're not good at it, it's okay. write out your feelings in a journal. talk to someone. it's okay. you'll be okay. but darling please don't hurt yourself. trust me, i have too, and that's only when i've gotten extremely stressed about online things that i didn't want to talk about. you have a best friend. you can talk to her. that's what friends are for. they accept what you're going through and try to help you. hell, even if you have to, cry it out. sometimes we all need a good cry.
- so yeah idk those are just my ideas. u can take 'em or leave 'em.
ps. no need to apologize for talking about yourself. it's good to get things off your chest and i like to help people with their problems in any way i can, even if it's just you sending in a paragraph of your feelings and forgetting about it!