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Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 28 Sep 2011, 11:12
by The Guy
How do you cure this
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 28 Sep 2011, 11:17
by Zados
get some self esteem
easily achieved if you accomplish small objectives you gave yourself
like: if you are overweighted change your lifestyle but not at once that does not work
start small - change from coke to water for example and if you stick with that 2 month do the next step
this is just an example but it works out for almost everything you do in life
if you like yourself and feel good no matter what others say you will become more interesting for others
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 30 Sep 2011, 13:35
by Final Warning
Zados wrote:get some self esteem
easily achieved if you accomplish small objectives you gave yourself
like: if you are overweighted change your lifestyle but not at once that does not work
start small - change from coke to water for example and if you stick with that 2 month do the next step
this is just an example but it works out for almost everything you do in life
if you like yourself and feel good no matter what others say you will become more interesting for others
Wow, Zad. That was great advice. I say do what Zad said. Couldn't have said it better than that.
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 30 Sep 2011, 14:56
by bob-jr
Zados wrote:get some self esteem
easily achieved if you accomplish small objectives you gave yourself
like: if you are overweighted change your lifestyle but not at once that does not work
start small - change from coke to water for example and if you stick with that 2 month do the next step
this is just an example but it works out for almost everything you do in life
if you like yourself and feel good no matter what others say you will become more interesting for others
Seriously zad u r like the all knowing mod guy who has great advice on life. Have u thought about becoming a therapist?
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 01 Oct 2011, 00:03
by Ithquentbvare
prophet wrote:killing yourself or killing others.
As good as Zados' comment was, this one is in the total opposite.
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 01 Oct 2011, 02:09
by mustache
If its actually in real life, just jump into peoples conversations.
Ex: Person 1:"Hey, did you see that touch down last night?"
You: (You might need to lie but its gets better for you.) "Yeah, that was awesome!"
If they start talking about, "You saw it? Lets me quiz you, _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _."
If this happens, just say, "Oh wait, sorry, I gotta do (some excuse)."
Then just, walk away. Otherwise, you life is ruined.
Don't really try my theory first hand, do it if your very desperate.
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 01 Oct 2011, 03:10
by beana 9000
Just show yourself worthy of doing something.And that can get you somewhere.(Ex:do something a normal or average person is to lazy to do. Pick up trash, rake up leaves/poo or something,trim bushes and things that need to be trimmed.But first ask a person in need of one or more of these things.)
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 01 Oct 2011, 14:26
by MrOrange Juice
You can cure this by getting some self confidence. If you are not confident without goals then you just cant do anything about this. Having good friends helps a lot too. You feel that there is always someone to talk to and thats the cure for "feelinng ignored" now if you feel unwanted try to be more social and as I said 3 lines before self confident
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 02 Oct 2011, 02:05
by Pizza Vampire
Ys but what if you feel Ignored and unwanted on this site?
Re: Feeling Ignored and Unwanted
Posted: 02 Oct 2011, 02:24
by Lamb
best thing if you feel alone...get a friend that feels the same way.