Should I tell my family I'm bi?

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Re: Should I tell my family I'm bi?

Postby Tycoon » 24 Jul 2014, 18:16

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IlikeAwesomeSauce wrote:my mom found out on accident that i liked girls and she's super religious and pissed so now she's making me read this book called 'is god anti-gay?' and i don't want to read it because it's not going to make me change my sexuality even though that's what she wants. all that it's going to do is rue that my mom doesn't love me enough to just accept me for what i am.

Tell her if she is so religious and so righteous and so confident that God hates gays, her if God controls everything and that everything happens for a reason.

She'll obviously say yes.

Then say, "Well then God made me like this, so there is a reason that I like girls."

And then she'll be frustrated, and might make a comment, then cut her off and say,

"Why would God create sin, and make me like this, knowing I'm going to hell? Wouldn't that mean God intentionally wanted me to go to hell and live a life of sin? I thought God loved all his creations?'

Sooner or later she'll realize that the Bible was written in a completely different era and if God does exist, it wouldn't have such backward opinions on things that don't even matter.

If this is too extreme, just quote Jesus and Mohammad. Two key and intelligent and accepting prophets of the Judeo-Christian God. Though, focus more on Jesus since American Christians seem to kind of not like Mohammad for some odd reason.

that's brilliant, way better than my advice about calling her out on her food, clothes, and other habits that are against the Bible because this one is so strong
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Re: Should I tell my family I'm bi?

Postby Shadow00 » 30 Jul 2014, 00:32

Its more about not being over the top IMHO.

I mean if they don't bother you then you don't have to shove it to their faces.
Example.
I am a straight person, so if I ever have a son that happens to be gay and he even brings his friend for a normal dinner I wouldn't really mind.
Now if he and his friend arrived wearing rainbow colored unicorn horns and started molesting the turkey on Thanksgiving I think I would mind.
Its just only about how extreme you are about it and how you pass it to your family.
If you're not into God and stuff then don't go reading the Necronomicon in your living room, trust me on that one

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Re: Should I tell my family I'm bi?

Postby Shadowstar1922 » 30 Jul 2014, 01:17

Shadow00 wrote:Its more about not being over the top IMHO.

I mean if they don't bother you then you don't have to shove it to their faces.
Example.
I am a straight person, so if I ever have a son that happens to be gay and he even brings his friend for a normal dinner I wouldn't really mind.
Now if he and his friend arrived wearing rainbow colored unicorn horns and started molesting the turkey on Thanksgiving I think I would mind.
Its just only about how extreme you are about it and how you pass it to your family.
If you're not into God and stuff then don't go reading the Necronomicon in your living room, trust me on that one


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