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abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 11:42
by danny
I hate them. every single one of them. if i could i would personally torture, maim and kill every single one of them. Nothing would satisfy me like that. only one thing comes close. seeing all those men in prison. the amount of emotional pain those men cause is beyond measure, and the amount of rage they bring out in me is unfathomed.

i realize that this topic seems very opinated and hateful, but know this, i know that the best thing for these men is psychiatric/psychological therapy. the main issue with that is that the men have to be willing for such things. as in they wont kill the therapist. it rarely ever works out like that so the next best thing is lock them away in prison. take away from them the life that they have robbed their victims of. that is what i see as justice.

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 11:58
by Amy
society as a general is so relaxed about it now.

There is a huge difference between cracking the "go make me a sandwich" joke and slapping your partner whenever you feel like it.

However some people just don't realise this, and some just ignore it... boundaries need to be placed again.

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 13:01
by Shadow00
We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we? :lol:

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 18:52
by danny
i am in agreement with corporal punishment, however, i dont like the over use of it. amy is right boundaries need to be there, but the disagreement comes on where those boundaries should be place. personally i would just agree with if there is malicious intent. however i have spoken with feminists who demand that no man should be able to touch any woman without her clearly expressed permission (these feminists were also very much double standard peoples, so i dont think their opinions matter too much) and to the other extreme some say that "its my home, i can do as i please in it" and personally i REALLY dont like that idea. it basically says that cops cant interfere in your home even with probable cause.

one thing i am passionate about though. ending spousal abuse, ending abusive relationships, both physical and emotional. but of course naivety gets us no where, so i'd settle for harsher punishments for said actions

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 20:58
by Shadowstar1922
Shadow00 wrote:We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we? :lol:

Shadow, you can call the cops, talk to teachers and friends, and they will do something about it. You can do something about abusive parents.

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 21:37
by Shadow00
Shadowstar1922 wrote:
Shadow00 wrote:We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we? :lol:

Shadow, you can call the cops, talk to teachers and friends, and they will do something about it. You can do something about abusive parents.

If they physically abuse you, ok. But if they verbally do... Nope.
And not many act like hulk nowadays :/

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 06 Apr 2012, 21:41
by Shadowstar1922
Shadow00 wrote:
Shadowstar1922 wrote:
Shadow00 wrote:We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we? :lol:

Shadow, you can call the cops, talk to teachers and friends, and they will do something about it. You can do something about abusive parents.

If they physically abuse you, ok. But if they verbally do... Nope.
And not many act like hulk nowadays :/

Of course not verbally. But physical, yes

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 09:49
by Rainshard
At my old school there was a girl who cried everytime her dad picked her up at school when anyone asked why she was crying shed cry louder i guessed this was domestic violence but im not too sure what happened to that girl.


Also as a south african you are used to people doing things like this every day 5000 woman in africa are raped by their husbands

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 08 Apr 2012, 14:16
by ghost 9
Shadowstar1922 wrote:
Shadow00 wrote:We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we? :lol:

Shadow, you can call the cops, talk to teachers and friends, and they will do something about it. You can do something about abusive parents.

Being able to talk to them, and actually doing it is completely different. There are times when one does not feel like having to deal with the responses of their friends, the teachers might now give a crap, and then the family might not listen to you because the person is "Nice and would never harm their child,".

Re: abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

Posted: 12 May 2012, 23:49
by Phantom
why only male abusers, female can also be abusive...........i think :?:

who you still personally torture and kill them if the abusers were females?????????