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Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 09 May 2011, 12:35
by Emo_Kid
Ok, So say you have just been offered to go to college and be a football player, because you've got talent, and this is a once in a life time shot, but you have a lovely little girlfriend that loves you dearly and cannot be without you, what would you do?
would you take this once in a life time deal, or stay home with your lady?
OR
You've just be offered a chance to fly across the world and join a modeling agency which offers twice as much as your last job did, and you aren't aloud to take anyone with you, but you have a very charming boyfriend who would do anything for you still there. So what would you do?
Which risks would you take? Do relationships come before sports and other opportunities?
-Kashton spoke his peace -.-
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 09 May 2011, 22:41
by mmm
Emo_Kid wrote:Ok, So say you have just been offered to go to college and be a football player, because you've got talent, and this is a once in a life time shot, but you have a lovely little girlfriend that loves you dearly and cannot be without you, what would you do?
would you take this once in a life time deal, or stay home with your lady?
OR
You've just be offered a chance to fly across the world and join a modeling agency which offers twice as much as your last job did, and you aren't aloud to take anyone with you, but you have a very charming boyfriend who would do anything for you still there. So what would you do?
Which risks would you take? Do relationships come before sports and other opportunities?
-Kashton spoke his peace -.-
I would stay with my girlfriend. I can say this confidently because a college football star doesn't get payed (unless he's Cam Newton), has no guarantee of getting drafted professionally, and even if one does, he'll eventually have to get a real job once he's past his prime.
If I have to choose between my girlfriend and a great career that sets me for life, I honestly can't say what I'd do. If I'm really in love, then the thought of leaving her for a job won't even cross my mind.
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 09 May 2011, 23:20
by Lightning Orb
Mmm that is so sweett!!!!
Haha & Emo_Kid..if I ever get a modeling opportunity (be it as it may) I would have to turn it down.
I believe relationship is key.
What if you leave ur gf/bf & u don't even like what ur gonna do for a living for a while? Its not like u can run back home & get back to ur love because by then they may have found someone else. Boyfriend comes first!
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 10 May 2011, 22:28
by Shadowstar1922
Lightning Orb wrote:Mmm that is so sweett!!!!
Haha & Emo_Kid..if I ever get a modeling opportunity (be it as it may) I would have to turn it down.
I believe relationship is key.
What if you leave ur gf/bf & u don't even like what ur gonna do for a living for a while? Its not like u can run back home & get back to ur love because by then they may have found someone else. Boyfriend comes first!
i totally agree with you, orby( lol, for once!) i would stay with my gf. and yes, i have a gf, her name is nikki.
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 02:47
by Wow_Give_Up_On_Life
You'll meet a billion girls over the course of your lifetime. Now aday's
with the population booming, the more variety of life.
You have a billion chance's to meet a girl, you only have one chance to succeed
at sports.
Besides that, I think you'd be at too young of an age to only be with one girl.
Watch some How I Met Your Mother.
( P.S Modeling is really easy to get into, Just getting proffessional status at it is difficult)
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 12:30
by Lightning Orb
Wow_Give_Up_On_Life wrote:
Besides that, I think you'd be at too young of an age to only be with one girl.
Watch some How I Met Your Mother.
Think is the key word there..
& How is "How I met your mother" going to help anyone?! Lmfao!
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 15:28
by Hitokiri
ok, so here's something lovely.
You stay with your gf at home, pass up a free ride to a good university (and therewith) your chance for a future with a better paid job.
you break up with your gf later on.
Do you blame her?
If you would've asked me 10 years ago, I'ld simply said, school/carreer comes first.
you have to go your own way and if you're meant to be, you'll find a way.
Now that college and school is over, with the age I have, both should be able to succeed.
Obviously I have that luxury now that I am in that future that I didn't jeopardize.
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 16:05
by Lightning Orb
So basically your saying choose future, not gf? Lol
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 20:50
by mmm
Lightning Orb wrote:So basically your saying choose future, not gf? Lol
I think what hitos saying is that there is no situation in which you have to strictly choose between one and the other.
Re: Sports, Chances, & Girlfriends..
Posted: 11 May 2011, 22:16
by Wow_Give_Up_On_Life
Well I was advocating having a life over a releationship. Exceedingly so when so young.