abusive boyfriends/husbands/fathers.

[Shadowstar1922]

why only male abusers, female can also be abusive...........i think

who you still personally torture and kill them if the abusers were females?????????

There are female girlfriends, wives, and mothers who have been abusive. There's quite a number of abuseive mothers, both mental and physical abuse to the child and or husband.

Abusive wives tend to be more mental abusive to their husbands. I've seen it before. But, I don't think there are abusive girlfriends now that I think about it. They can manipulate you and such, but I don't think that's considered abuse.

[Shadow00]

Abusive girlfriends turn to be abusive wives usually after a w*****g ceremony.
And also, an overprotective mother is about the worst thing one can get.

[Shadowstar1922]

And also, an overprotective mother is about the worst thing one can get.

Not rlly. There are mothers that do beat their children. It's not all men that do that.

[dEAR_cHILD]

There is also the matter of someone believing you, dont forget all the nice apple pie mothers who people say would never hurt their children. Many times those mothers who are mentally abusive get away with it, on the same token no other abuse ever happens without the mother also being mentally abusive. Most people just dont know how to classify and define what is abuse, whats more many parents who are abusing their children dont see it that way.

[azazel_raven_]

Abusive girlfriends turn to be abusive wives usually after a w*****g ceremony.
And also, an overprotective mother is about the worst thing one can get.

Not true at all. If you knew half the stories I've heard.. I have a friend who's mother doesn't care at all. She never even knows where she is. I think that's worse than overprotectiveness. I also have a lot of abused friends. My friend Alex's mom broke her nose by slapping her. A riend of mines mom gave me a concussion by banging her head off the floor and then hypothermia by throwing her out of the house with no phone in a cheerleading uniform. My other friend, Payton, got pushed down the stairs by her mom. She had a huge cut on the back of her head that probably should've gotten stitches.

Then there's the sexual abuse statistic. This is probably the worst form, because not only do you feel worthless, and physically wrong, you feel dirty, ashamed, and like you did something wrong, even if you did nothing. Especially when it's a habitual happening. I know quite a few girls, and even a few guys who have been sexually abused by parents, and other members of there parents, and a few boyfriends/ Exs.


And there's neglect. I know,, someone, who didn't go to the doctors until the school nurse called home, and threaten to take the girl to the hospital herself. This girl was coughing up blood everywhere. She had to be half-carried to the nurses office because she was dizzy, and on the verge of losing conciousness. Her mom took her to the doctors, and he prompted a rushed visit to the hospital. She had to get X-Rays. The pnemonia had overtaken her entire left lung, and part of her right. She couldn't breathe properly, which explained the dizzyness. The bleeding was a mixture of the pressure on her lungs and the complete rawness of her throat. She was diagnosed with pnemonia and hematalyosis.

I agree with

We cant do much about abusive parents though anyways, can we?

Shadow, you can call the cops, talk to teachers and friends, and they will do something about it. You can do something about abusive parents.

You can, but the majority of the time, the children are threatened by they're parents, and silenced. If they speak out, they're beaten worse. If they do manage to speak out,a lot of times Police Officers, Teachers, and Principals will believe the parent over the child. Friends can't help much. They can make you feel better, but they don't stop anything.

All in all, abuse, and neglect are absolutly awful. Having had close expeirences in all of these, I Know how absolutly terrifying it is to be afraid to go home. I've gone to friends house to avoid my house, and had friends come to mine before. I even ran away with a best friend once. We didn't make it very far.

I agree with Danny. I personally would like to strangle the fuck out of abusive people. Male and Female.

[Lightning Orb]

And also, an overprotective mother is about the worst thing one can get.

Not rlly. There are mothers that do beat their children. It's not all men that do that.

It's worse when they just shoot them. I read an article in the Newspaper a few weeks ago about a mother who shot all four of her children just because they got in trouble at school. It's like wtf? Psychotic people and children aren't a good mix. This is why I hate babysitting.

[Gyro_Plasma]

My parents do that, but they love each other

[gamefreack]

i think abusive woman or man (physical abuse)are both mentally distracted a they feel relieved after slapping a child or a wife
here in our country using violence is something rightful for husband he can slap his wife when ever he wants and no one will care about it
you also can slap your kids as you wish. Shadowstar1922 how could i talk to teachers while they are also abusive and slap their pupils ?

[Shadow00]

You don't get it much now, do you.
Any of all of you learned at school how to be a good parent?
Because I haven't. And I am most likely certain I will be a worse one than my parents were.(which were awesome, actually).
So if a person lacks self-control AND doesn't know what being a parent means, then there is your family abuse right there.
As for abusive boyfriends, if you get a boyfriend that is abusive and still don't split up, then it is 50% your fault too...
As for husbands, the same. It is called divorce.

That's the way to deal with tge two last.
If you end up with an abusive parent...
Either wait 'till you're 18 or learn some martial art thingy, or simply let someone on authority which you trust know.

[iTz Joker]

would you really kill or torture another person though? no matter how evil they are, if you had that power over someone else, would you really use it? i don't think you would, or the vast majority of people couldnt, regardless of crimes commited.